I've been here for a couple of times already -- some petty heart breaks when I was in high school, but the most painful would be when my best friends seems to just start not caring for each other (well, she's the one who stopped caring anyway). I hate how everything seemed to be perfect, and then all of a sudden, they found some new 'friends' and then started to forget about my existence. I know, relationships that you built in high school doesn't usually go to the next level, but the friends that you make are forever. But in my case, just like any other, they left. They left, they look back, but the trust and all the other things that comes with friendship isn't there anymore. With just a glance, everything is gone.
I hate how everything was just gone in a glimpse. After all that we've been through, they'll just trash me out of their lives.
We grow up. We also grew apart.
It's just... sad.
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I know how you feel because I had a very close friend and we had to end our friendship. She's in the media and I have to be polite and nice to her even though every time I have to say her name that it crushes me inside. It is really hard but sometimes we have to move on and cherish the good moments that we have even though it really is difficult.
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Everyone goes through that stage. We all feel pain and sufferings but life would always manage to make us all feel better and blessed. Be optimistic. :)
Look at the bright side, atleast you got a reader here who cares for you despite not really knowing you personally. :)
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to mail me. :) I used to be part of the peer counseling org and If I could, I would love to lend you my ears.
Look at the bright side, atleast you got a reader here who cares for you despite not really knowing you personally. :)
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to mail me. :) I used to be part of the peer counseling org and If I could, I would love to lend you my ears.
Di tunay na kaibigan pag ganyan! A true friend is a friend forever no matter what! You deserve someone better.
Awwww~ *hugs you* Things happen for a reason. We meet people who would either leave soon or stay with us forever. :) You'll meet the latter pretty soon. Cheer up!
I've been through that time too, I just make myself to be optimistic & to think positive.
A lot of people care about you- you're not the only one who knows that. :) You can email me anytime frostedjar@gmail.com I'd love to talk to you. Keep in touch!
A lot of people care about you- you're not the only one who knows that. :) You can email me anytime frostedjar@gmail.com I'd love to talk to you. Keep in touch!
ooh. mejo naka relate ako. kaya nga i hate expectations. And I always put in my mind that there is no permanent things. Only God can be permanent. jeeh! I hate falling into pieces . It hurts. it's hard. It's like when you are already in pieces its hard to recover and if you ever did it's like there are still little cracks left. teeeh. o.O
Sometimes friendships do end, for whatever reason, their time in your life has ended. Time does heal wounds.
OMG :( I have read someone's blog post like yours too. It was HS friendship that gradually breaks apart 'cuz of new life in college.
You guys should value more the friendship and memories you've shared together. Might meet new ones but must treasure the old ones. If ever someone got a problem, the HS friends' comfort is more valuable than the new ones I guess, because they know more about you for more than a year.
Just stay strong :) Always pray to God :)
You guys should value more the friendship and memories you've shared together. Might meet new ones but must treasure the old ones. If ever someone got a problem, the HS friends' comfort is more valuable than the new ones I guess, because they know more about you for more than a year.
Just stay strong :) Always pray to God :)
It's really painful when those people whom you considered as part of your life suddenly dropped you out of their lives. Maybe this is just a test for you to know who are your true and real friends. Trust me, this phase in your life may be painful, but it'll make you smarter and stronger than what you are now. :)
I know it's really difficult to face such situation.. especially when you know that those you have considered as friends are the ones you thought would stay by your side til the end.. however, maybe there's a reason behind all these. Just ask for God's guidance.. pray.. Also remember that despite of all that, you still have some freinds (like us online friends) and family who you can lean on. No matter what, STAY STRONG. BE POSITIVE!
Aw hun, I know it's sad but these things happen and sometimes there is not much you can do about it. Time takes it course and especially during school you will lose some friends. I went through it and I thought I had so many friends that I'd keep forever, but they stopped talking to me and we don't talk much anymore. But I have better friends now, and ones who I'll stick with.
I don't know if you follow that quote, but they say all good things come to an end... if you try to look at it positively. It was a good time in your life. :)
I don't know if you follow that quote, but they say all good things come to an end... if you try to look at it positively. It was a good time in your life. :)
urgh i know how you feel. But ours id different. He left our group because he wanted to be with the one he loves and he doesn't want to be hurt anymore. it just sucks though we still text each other but those bonding times we had were priceless. I wish someday he would wake up and realize who hi true friends are.
Ayways i wish all the best for both of you. I wish the same to me and my friends lol :)
Ayways i wish all the best for both of you. I wish the same to me and my friends lol :)
Aww. There are just some people who tends to forget that easily. I don't want to judge but, if I have friends like that, I just let them. Besides, it's not my lost. There are times that we just have to accept the fact that there are other people in this world who will care for us. It's painful to see those friends go, I know, but it's even painful to pretend that you guys are still close. If you know what I mean. I have friends since elementary, I treasure them, for it's really rare to find true friends these days. God bless!
a lot of people can relate to this...reality hurts but it's part of life...keep your head up high and believe in yourself...ask God's guidance...:)
it happened to me before as well. college friends nga lang... like i thought we'll be barkada all throughout our college days but we grew apart just because we were reshuffled. at least i knew what kind of people they are. *hugs*
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